This past Labor Day weekend, I was supposed to meet up with my three close friends for our usual weekend workouts. Some people choose to rest on the weekends. In my world weekends have always been days to push myself harder. I rarely leave room for downtime, play, or simply being still.
That Sunday morning, the three of them FaceTimed me with a “counteroffer”: instead of lacing up our sneakers, why not curl up on the couch, watch movies, and just relax? They even promised we could make up for it the following day since Monday was a holiday.
At first, my insecurities screamed at me. Was I being lazy? Was I letting myself down? But I chose to say yes and I’m so glad I did. My body thanked me for the pause, especially after having worked out six days in a row and pushing dangerously close to seven.
Spice’s Lesson: The Power of Rest
Spice, in her infinite wisdom, always knew the secret to balance. She never felt guilty for napping, curling up under a blanket, or tucking herself in like a person on the couch. Rest wasn’t weakness for her. It was strength. It was her way of recharging so she could come back with playful energy, bright eyes, and a wagging tail.
As I scrolled through my photos of Spice, curled up on pillows, tucked into bed, or sprawled next to me on the couch. I realized she had been teaching me this lesson all along: sometimes, the most productive thing you can do is rest.
Why Rest Isn’t Wasted Time
When you push yourself too hard, burnout sneaks in. But when you take time to pause, whether it’s a nap, a quiet walk, or just a moment to breathe, you recharge and recalculate. You wake up with fresh ideas, renewed energy, and sometimes even inspiration you didn’t know you needed.
If Spice could have talked to me I think she would have said:
“Don’t be afraid to press pause. The world will still be there when you wake up. And you’ll be better prepared to chase joy when you’re rested.”
If Spice could have spoken directly to you, I think she would have wagged her tail and said:
“Friends, listen to your body. Rest when you need it. Take that nap, say yes to a slow day, or curl up under a cozy blanket without guilt. Life isn’t a race. It’s a walk in the park. And sometimes the best walks start after a good nap.”
Call to Action
So here’s my challenge for you this week: give yourself permission to rest. Whether it’s five minutes of quiet, a Sunday with friends, or a nap with your pup, honor your body and mind. You might just wake up with the clarity, joy, and inspiration you’ve been waiting for.
Because as Spice showed me, rest isn’t the opposite of progress. It’s part of it.